Let your shoulder be a place she can rest from time to time. By subscribing, you agree to the terms of our Privacy Statement. The point is, you have to take responsibility for communicating your needs in a way that he understands. Talk with him about it, encourage and support him. Sometimes we need just to be close to one another, other times we need room to breathe, and work through our own stuff. Sensitive guys are not known for being decisive. More From Thought Catalog.
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Even when making little, seemingly insignificant decisions, his brain is working like a NASA supercomputer. Some tasteful suspense is fine, but violence and cruelty often leave HSPs somewhere between upset and overwhelmed. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. Our nervous system is hardwired to notice and process more information and sensory input, all the time. A mature and sensitive man will be highly attuned to how you feel, what you need and want. The point is, you have to take responsibility for communicating your needs in a way that he understands.