Unfortunately for the fellas, there are more men than cougars. Like live music and sunsets? You can also ask the woman you approach if she wants to shoot a game of pool. You got the live music, the dancing, the cheap drinks, and the laid-back locals. The first is something called flyboarding and is offered in the marina. This Italian restaurant in 4S Ranch boasts one heck of an after-dinner bar scene. Which gives YOU an advantage.
Float upstairs on the roof has a Vegas like pool scene on Sundays, but is pretty good at night too.
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Staying on the beach puts you near a more laidback crowd while giving you easy beach access. The Tipsy Crow has a nice contrast between a low-key main floor and a basement dance floor to get dirty with top 40 and some old school hip-hop. Thrusters gives you similar DJ and lounge type action. Your two options are to stay downtown or to stay out in Mission Beach or Pacific Beach aka PBwhich are basically the same thing. Unfortunately for the fellas, there are more men than cougars.